Eugene Weekly

I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old gay man. For just about … Continue reading →

Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy for the … Continue reading →

I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and I always thought … Continue reading →

My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling around the world and pursued … Continue reading →

I’ve always been excited by BDSM, but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a straight woman and it was … Continue reading →

Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding foursomes,” and the first result is an article about … Continue reading →

I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why now? And why so various? … Continue reading →

Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I’d like to love and be loved … Continue reading →

My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had 12 great years together. He was also very, very organized. His death … Continue reading →

I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants to work on himself and … Continue reading →