Eugene Weekly

I have a question about choking. Or should that be simulated choking? I’ve recently discovered that being pinned down by my neck is a huge … Continue reading →

I’m a 36-year-old married woman who fantasizes about her husband of 10 years being intimate with other women. This isn’t a new thing for me. … Continue reading →

A friend hooked me up with a much younger guy for weed. Let’s call him “Pretty Boy.” He knew something about me — Pretty Boy … Continue reading →

From the end of Roe to the assault on democracy to the climate crisis to the war on Ukraine, it’s all bad news, all the … Continue reading →

I’m a cis woman in her 30s who lives on the East Coast. I’ve been in an LTR with the same cis man for 12 … Continue reading →

Weekly deadlines being what they are, this column was written before the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade. We knew this was coming, thanks to … Continue reading →

I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016. I … Continue reading →

I’m a 29-year-old bisexual woman in a non-monogamous relationship. A few years ago, I wanted to explore my submissive side and met up a with … Continue reading →

I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences, experiences that have made me question my own judgment and ability to set good boundaries. … Continue reading →

I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same city for work and met on … Continue reading →