Eugene Weekly

I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t just sexualize or fetishize them? … Continue reading →

You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone” extends to sending thousands of … Continue reading →

I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight woman, I am only interested … Continue reading →

I’m a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I’m happily married to a wonderful woman … Continue reading →

I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we are perfect for each … Continue reading →

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship — or so I thought. Last week, I snooped on my … Continue reading →

I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our very special guest, and we tackled … Continue reading →

A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted to me, another male, and … Continue reading →

I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To put it simply, both … Continue reading →

I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if that wasn’t not … Continue reading →