To a T
My thoughts about six months on testosterone

The internet is home to so many blogs and videos of trans people documenting their transitions: binding and tucking tips, clothing advice, surgery and hormone … Continue reading
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The internet is home to so many blogs and videos of trans people documenting their transitions: binding and tucking tips, clothing advice, surgery and hormone … Continue reading
There are still the hoops that people in the LGBTQIA+ community have to go through. Always, it seems, there are the hoops, as Leo Baudhuin … Continue reading
Pride might look like red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple. It might be signs stating “Love is Love,” or “It’s a Great Day to … Continue reading
I have a question about choking. Or should that be simulated choking? I’ve recently discovered that being pinned down by my neck is a huge … Continue reading
I’m a 36-year-old married woman who fantasizes about her husband of 10 years being intimate with other women. This isn’t a new thing for me. … Continue reading
The Whiteaker neighborhood gets to celebrate itself on Saturday. No, this is not the longtimeWhiteaker Block Party that many remember, but Block Party at Alluvium … Continue reading
On any given day the Washington Jefferson Skatepark is filled with noise. It’s noise that may sound random or chaotic for the uninitiated, but a … Continue reading
By now you’ve seen what makes Eugene and Lane County so great, and you might be starting to see the light about why so many … Continue reading
It’s the Year of the Water Tiger, where, says the Oregon Asian Celebration website, Chinese mythology holds that the water element brings out a person’s … Continue reading
A friend hooked me up with a much younger guy for weed. Let’s call him “Pretty Boy.” He knew something about me — Pretty Boy … Continue reading
From the end of Roe to the assault on democracy to the climate crisis to the war on Ukraine, it’s all bad news, all the … Continue reading
When Ryan Cook moved to Eugene in 2019, ready to open Pyre Nashville Hot Chicken off of River Road, he was warned not to make … Continue reading
Pointing to a study in which 1,000 different categories for gender are recognized, Eric Braman speculates it might be better to do away with labels … Continue reading
I’m a cis woman in her 30s who lives on the East Coast. I’ve been in an LTR with the same cis man for 12 … Continue reading